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Train Up A Child

Beth Jones

"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." Proverbs 22:6, NKJV
 
Raising genuine, godly kids in this current culture is a challenge; there is no doubt about it. Raising pastor’s kids – aka: PK’s – brings another set of dynamics altogether. Since Jeff and I were not raised in a pastor’s home, we had no idea what raising PK’s was going to be like. We’d heard the horror stories about raising pastor’s kids. You know, those kids who grow up and walk away from God, hate the church, despise ministry, start gothic rock bands and eat bats. Or, the other extreme, PK’s who are socially insecure, naïve or just weird. This wasn’t our goal.
 
Like all Christian parents, we wanted our kids to be fun, normal and know Jesus personally. We wanted them to want to please Him, not because mom or dad are Christians, not because their family was involved in church or ministry; but rather, because they “got it” and loved the Lord. 
 
Here are a few things that have worked for us as we “trained up” our children that might also help you as you seek to raise godly kids.
 
Take the Pressure Off: Remove the pressure to be perfect. We knew that pressuring our kids or forcing them to live under unrealistic expectations of being perfect while living in the ‘church fishbowl’ wasn’t going to work, so we did the opposite. We broke the mold of the “perfect Pastor's’ home” phenomenon and told our kids they had permission to make mistakes! We told them that we knew they would not be perfect, so our prayer was simply that their mistakes would be minor and they would learn quickly. And that’s how it’s been. Taking the pressure off freed them up to follow their own conscience. They did make mistakes, but they survived and so did we.
 
Be Fanatical About Media: Don’t be too permissive. While we tried to take the pressure off, we still had some pretty strict rules on certain things. We were fanatical on media, movies, music, Internet and TV. The kids have fun mocking some of the shows we wouldn’t let them watch, but it didn’t seem to hurt them to miss out on a few pop culture favorites. We were pretty big on guarding the things that went into their “ear-gates” and “eye-gates.” Specifically, we didn’t want things going into them that would open the door to a spirit of fear, rebellion or immorality – as if that was the norm. At the same time, we wanted the kids to be exposed to enough of “the world” to be relevant and develop healthy coping skills for dealing with temptations, pressures and a bit of persecution. We made some mistakes along the way, but at the end of the day we are pleased with the foundation and worldview our kids have developed.
 
Insist on Church: We hear way too often from parents, “I don't want to force my kids to go to church.” But we were fanatical about church attendance and involvement. Like most parents, we realized that we were against an uphill battle with our kids being influenced by friends, school and media the majority of the week. That's why church involvement was mandatory.
 
Kids don’t get the choice to attend school, so why give them the option with church? We never even opened the door for our kids to say, “We don’t want to go to church...It’s boring…I want to sleep in.” That was never an option. In our case, we told our kids that God has called our whole family to the ministry – not just mom and dad – and that meant we all went to church. We also insisted that our kids got involved in serving at church. We wanted them to own the idea of serving God and His House at a young age. Another big thing for us was giving our kids strong Christian role models in their lives, other than us. That meant being an active part of our youth group.
 
Talk and Laugh: Forget about being a boring Christian family! It’s been said that “rules without relationship breeds rebellion.” A relationship is formed through communication, laughter and joy! So raising kids in a home where there is a lot of communication, laughter and joy has been huge for us. We don’t want our family to be the stuffy, serious types. We also don't want kids who rebel, so we always find a way to talk things out, to pray, to laugh and lovingly joke about most everything.
 
For us, these ideas were huge in raising a godly family. Today, all four of our kids are now adults who are serving in the full-time ministry. The most important thing to us? They all genuinely love the Lord and each other. 
 
How about you? I encourage you to have fun and follow the Lord’s guidance as you train up godly kids!
 
Say It: "Father, I want to take some of the unrealistic pressure off my kids; at the same time, I don’t want to be overly permissive so I know I may need to be fanatical on some of the media my kids watch and listen to. I want a family that loves You and Your House, and I want a home where talking, praying and laughing is the norm. Help me follow your guidance as we develop the type of Christian family that honors You. In Jesus' Name. Amen."